Well, we did it! The oldest
one is officially off to college! I took
this past Friday off from work and early that morning we got up and loaded the
last of her things, then made the drive over to the campus. I have to tell you, we had a great day!!
Most of what she ended up taking fit inside her car. A couple boxes ended up in mine. Once we arrived we checked in and drove over
to the dorms where we were greeted by alumni members that had come to
help. Everyone was so welcoming as they
helped us grab stuff and invited us right on in. They had a donut and coffee station set up,
but we were too excited to see her room and meet her roommate so we got right
to it.
We couldn't have asked for a better day. The weather was perfect! |
Her RA (resident assistant) checked us in, gave her a key and
showed us her room. No sign of a roommate
yet, so my daughter had first dibs on bed and furniture. She chose the end of the room and we got to
work moving her desk, dresser and closet into position. We went through several reconfigurations before
all was said and done, but I think she came up with a great setup that allows
for privacy but is still open enough so the wall won't feel as if they are
closing in.
Another trip down to the car and we pretty much had all of her
clothes and toiletries unloaded. Then on
our third trip we were greeted by three members of the football team offering
to help carry stuff and I couldn't have been any happier about that, believe
me.
These are the people who will keep my girl safe. Amazing group of individuals. |
The fed us lunch and had cookie and coffee stations set up all
over campus. We took a break from
unpacking to get some food and then over to the campus safety building for her student ID and to get a parking pass. Next was
to the campus store where I treated her to a school windbreaker and a long
sleeved T-shirt. Lastly, we headed over
to get her mailbox assigned and get her key.
Then back to the dorm to unpack some more, tweak the room again and find
out her assigned roommate had decided to go to school elsewhere. So for now my daughter has the room to
herself, but that is most likely to change in the next couple of weeks.
By 2:00 we had orientation, at 3:00 parents split off from the
students and orientation continued for another hour. Then there was a parent's happy hour, but I
skipped that to help my daughter finish unpacking before we headed off to
dinner.
Look at this happy girl! |
All day long we felt a true sense of wellbeing and as if we were
being taken care of. So many people on
hand to help out and reassure us as we navigated throughout our day and super,
super friendly. Everyone we met was so
nice and seemed so happy. I know she is
in a great place and I couldn't be more pleased.
We had the option of the dining hall on campus, however knowing my
daughter would be eating there on a daily basis we opted to go to a restaurant
instead. Along the way we stopped at
Dollar Tree for a few supplies and at a thrift store to see if they had a
bathrobe for her. As it turned out we
found one, brand new with the tags still on it, in her size and favorite
color. She stated it was meant to be and
we bought it.
Oh my gosh! These fajitas were so good!! |
I took her to one of my favorite restaurants in the area and we
shared a HUGE fajita platter. It was a
fantastic meal and the service was topnotch.
We left the restaurant feeling stuffed and well cared for. On the way back I drove her around the little
town and showed her all of the places she would find helpful, including an
urgent care center as well as Wal-Mart. The grocery store is literally across the
street from her dorm which will be super handy for her.
She has it fixed up super cute. In the opposite corner is her desk. |
returned her to her dorm and helped her carry up the items we
had purchased at Dollar Tree and the thrift store as well as her leftovers from
dinner. Then it was time. I told her I loved her a lot and gave her a
giant hug. Then I got out of there
before either one of us had a chance to tear up. I had a lot of fun that day and it was truly
a special time for us. She is going to
do so well at college and she is surrounded by a lot of good people to make sure
she does. I couldn't be happier for her.
Best wishes and prayers for a fantastic freshman year sweetie!
ReplyDeleteI'll be sure to pass along your well wishes. Thank you!
DeleteYou are such a wonderful Mom!! Your daughter has been taught so many valuable skills that I'm sure she will do well.
ReplyDeleteBest wishes to you and your family, Janie
Thank you Janie!
DeleteWhat an exciting time for your daughter! I know it's bittersweet to leave her, but I know you're very proud of her. It's nice too, that she's not far away.
ReplyDeleteI am very proud of her. Thank you. :o)
DeleteCongratulations to both of you!!
ReplyDeleteTania
Thanks so much Tania!
DeleteHappy times as she enters this new phase of life.
ReplyDeleteIt is so exciting!!
DeleteCongratulations to both of you! This is such an exciting new phase.
ReplyDeleteVery exciting! Thank you. :)
DeleteI would be crying like a baby -happy tears but none the less tears. She looks so grown up in her new room. I just have one question - How does she get into that high bed? lol. Is there a ladder on the end or a step stool. Of course she is younger than me but I'd never be able to hop up on it. :) Smart use of the space under the bed. Take care.
ReplyDeleteI thought I'd be more emotional, but I'm so excited for her. Maybe it just hasn't quite hit yet, not sure. I got her a step for the bed. It was a bit of a struggle for her to get in and out. All I couldn't envision was a broken ankle. LOL
DeleteThis reminds me so much of dropping my daughter off to college. Your daughter will do great in this new chapter of her life, guaranteed ... and so will you :) You are such a fantastic mom.
ReplyDeleteD.
Oooh, thank you so much! It was a fantastic day for us
DeleteOh, college campuses are so amazing on freshman move-in day! They are designed to make you feel good about leaving your son/daughter in their hands, and boy, do they do a good job! I wish your daughter a very happy and productive year! And I wish you and your other daughter a great year of twosome living!
ReplyDeleteThey were absolutely wonderful. Thank you so much Sue.
DeleteShe will love this small school. My youngest nephew graduated a year ago and his girl-in-love in May. They loved their education and the overall experience there!
ReplyDeleteShe is really happy there so far and I know this is a really good place for her to be. :0)
DeleteHow did I miss this? Oh, I see it is when my house was destroyed and I was in distress.
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