Christmas Gifts This Year

 

I haven't posted much about Christmas preparations or gifts this year.  I love to make, purchase and give gifts to my family and my friends.  With all that has gone on in the world the past two years and with our family personally we've put a lot more thought into what is truly important to us these days.  I can tell you right now, it isn't objects.  It's time spent with our loved ones. 

My very best friend is in the end stages of ovarian cancer.  She has been fighting this battle for five years now and it is truly a miracle that she was able to.  Initially she was given six months, but her positive attitude and flat out determination has allowed her to have more time with her family and her friends.  But, she's grown weary and the cancer is winning.  None of us, including her, have ever been under the notion she could beat this.  She just wanted as much time as the Lord was willing to allow.  We are blessed for the time she has been able to have and as she and I have discussed, there is more that awaits us beyond the here and now. 

The truest treasures in our lives are the people in them.  Quality time spent together making memories.  Laugh a lot.  Hug each other.  Don't let the opportunity to say "I love you" pass by.  Spread joy.  Lend a helping hand.  Put aside your differences.  Forgive.  Decorate.  Light candles.  Bake cookies and share them with others.  Give to a charity or the food pantry.  Smile at strangers.  Hold the door open.  Say hello.  Be kind.

The greatest gift we can give others is the best parts of us.